Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Life Lessons in the Pool


When I was a very small kid my father taught me how to swim. He loved the water! The first thing he taught me was how to float. On my back, feet together in a frog position, his hand under my back he waited until I felt it. There it is I was floating. Then he slowly moved his hand away. I was floating by myself. Learning to float first was a great thing. Trust and safety was established. I now trusted my father and myself in the water. As I moved forward in my lesson I knew I could roll to my back and float, rest. I knew I was going to be ok.

What a great thing to teach first, how to rest in your new environment.  I don’t remember anything else about my first lesson with my Dad but that. He created trust with me and gave me a confidence before anything else. Wow!

Later on my parents sent me with my older siblings to swimming lessons. The pool was one of those long ones. Not like the pools at hotels but the ones where the races are held. Our instructor was a man named George. He did not get in the water. He taught from the edge of the pool with a long stick. He taught us different strokes and then required us to swim laps. You were not allowed to rest during laps. No holding the side of the pool or he would hit you with the stick. I don’t remember him ever hitting anyone. He periodically hit the water with his stick. I made a loud smacking noise, whack! Needless to say I did not like these lessons. But I did learn something important about myself. I am stronger than I think I am. I think it is important to learn this early in life that when you have to you can dig deep and persevere. I wanted to rest but it was not an option.  In water there is always the risk of drowning. You need to know you are stronger than you think.

These experiences were both very valuable ones. Well, our Heavenly Father teaches us in similar ways. He teaches us to float, how to find rest anywhere. His hand is so close by. He builds my confidence in Him that He is never far. But, He also teaches us through life experiences that we are stronger than we think and more than conquerors.  These life lessons in water have been life shaping for me and I am able to trust and risk at the same time.

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

The Process of maintaining a balanced life!

Have you ever noticed...

The process of maintaining a balanced life really never stops!
I believe that if you are like me and love new challenges, you have to be constantly asking "is this committment right for this season?".

I really made a concerted effort in the 2nd half of 2010 to step away from some areas of committment and service where grace and enthusiasm had waned in order to make room for some new endeavors. Well I did. By December, I was freed up. Wow, it felt so good to slow down. I was reconnecting with people and laughing more. These are both very good things.

Well, It is now Feb and I am slammed!!! Dont get me wrong, I am not complaining. I am just making the observation that every time I turn around I am involved in really exciting new ventures. Because I have a visionary nature and love creative thinking it sets me up for this scenario.
So, for the next 5 (weekly) posts I am going to explore some good disciplines and practices to have in place to be sure we are doing the right things in the right season.

Discipline/Practice #1

Ask God.

I have found it is a really good idea to talk it out with God before you step into things.

"Call to Me and I will answer you and tell you great and mighty things you do not know." Jeremiah 33:3
In this promise, the Father is telling us that if we talk to Him we will actually recieve from Him new info. "things we do not know". Plus that info is "great and mighty". We want and really need that info!!

The Lord "rewards those who earnestly seek Him" Hebrews 11:6
We like rewards!! Usually I am doing things way bigger than I am capable of and really need these rewards.


"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding, and he will direct your path." Proverbs 3:5
See, We really want Him to direct us as we go. So, in order to "trust" him we need to know Him and what He is saying. So, ask Him.

You may be thinking, Sarah sure does like to quote scriptures. True, I do. Here's why. I have found that He ALWAYS fulfills His word. Everytime in His time!

When we talk with our Father, just like Jesus did, about all things whether they may be exciting, risky, and busy, life is leaning more toward balance.

Let's do it! Talk with Him and see!!!

Sarah